How to Choose the Right Fiduciaries
- Anderson Elder Law
- 3 days ago
- 4 min read
When most people think about estate planning, they focus on documents including wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives. While these documents are important, one of the most critical decisions you will make has nothing to do with the paperwork itself.
It's choosing the people who will carry out your wishes.

These individuals are known as fiduciaries, and they play a vital role in protecting your financial, legal, and healthcare interests if you become unable to manage them yourself or after your death. The people you choose today could be making some of the most important decisions of your life tomorrow.
What Is a Fiduciary?
A fiduciary is someone who has a legal duty to act in your best interests. In Pennsylvania, fiduciaries are required to act honestly, responsibly, and in accordance with the authority granted to them.
Depending on your estate plan, fiduciaries may include:
Your Agent under a Financial Power of Attorney
Your Healthcare Agent under a Healthcare Power of Attorney
The Executor of your Will
The Trustee of your Trust
A Guardian, if one is ever needed
Each role carries significant responsibility and requires someone you trust to act with care, judgment, and integrity.
The Most Common Mistake: Choosing the Wrong Person for the Wrong Reason Many people automatically select their oldest child, spouse, or closest family member without fully considering whether that person is equipped to handle the responsibilities involved.
Being trustworthy is important, but it is not the only quality that matters.
The ideal fiduciary is someone who can:
Make decisions under pressure
Handle financial and legal matters responsibly
Communicate effectively with family members and professionals
Follow your wishes, even when others disagree
Stay organized and meet deadlines
Act objectively during emotional situations
The person who loves you the most is not always the person best suited for the job.
Choosing an Agent Under a Power of Attorney
A Financial Power of Attorney allows someone to manage financial matters on your behalf if you become incapacitated.
Your agent may need to:
Access bank accounts
Pay bills
Manage investments
Coordinate with attorneys, accountants, and financial advisors
Handle real estate transactions
Implement Medicaid or asset protection strategies if long-term care becomes necessary
Because these responsibilities can be extensive, it's important to choose someone who is dependable, organized, and comfortable handling financial matters.
In Pennsylvania, the authority granted to an agent depends on the language contained in the Power of Attorney itself. Proper drafting is essential to ensure your agent has the authority needed when it matters most.
Choosing a Healthcare Agent
Your healthcare agent may be called upon to make medical decisions if you cannot communicate your wishes.
This person should:
Understand your values and preferences
Be comfortable speaking with doctors and healthcare providers
Remain calm during medical emergencies
Advocate for your wishes, even in difficult situations
Perhaps most importantly, your healthcare agent should be willing to have conversations now about the care you would want in the future.
Choosing an Executor An executor is responsible for administering your estate after your death.
Their responsibilities may include:
Filing paperwork with the court
Gathering assets
Paying debts and taxes
Working with attorneys and financial institutions
Distributing assets to beneficiaries
While many executors successfully serve without prior experience, the role requires attention to detail, patience, and the ability to manage complex administrative tasks.
Should You Name More Than One Person? Many families wonder whether they should appoint co-agents, co-trustees, or co-executors.
While naming multiple people may seem like a way to keep things fair, it can sometimes create challenges if decision-makers disagree or have difficulty coordinating.
Every family situation is different. In some cases, naming co-fiduciaries works well. In others, it may be more effective to appoint one primary decision-maker and name backups.
The best approach depends on family dynamics, geographic location, individual strengths, and the complexity of your planning.
When to Reevaluate Your Choices Choosing fiduciaries is not a one-time decision. You should review your selections whenever there is a significant life change, such as:
Marriage or divorce
Death of a spouse or fiduciary
Changes in health
Relocation
Changes in family relationships
Financial changes
The person who was the right choice ten years ago may not be the right choice today.
The Importance of Having the Conversation One of the best things you can do after selecting your fiduciaries is to talk with them.
Explain:
Why you chose them
What responsibilities they may face
Your goals and wishes
Where important documents are located
These conversations can help prevent confusion and reduce stress during difficult times.
Planning Beyond the Documents
At Anderson Elder Law, we often tell families that estate planning is about much more than signing documents.
The success of your plan depends not only on what your documents say, but also on who is entrusted to carry them out.
Choosing the right fiduciaries can help ensure your wishes are honored, your affairs are managed properly, and your loved ones have the support they need when life takes an unexpected turn.
If you are creating or updating your estate plan, take the time to carefully consider who will serve in these important roles. A thoughtful decision today can provide clarity, protection, and peace of mind for years to come.






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